On this compelling and weak episode of xoMan, David Banner joined host Kiara Walker for a wide-ranging dialog on legacy, love, masculinity, and the realities of being a multi-hyphenate within the leisure business. Banner is unfiltered, passionate, and introspective—providing reality bombs, knowledge, and humor in equal measure.
He mirrored on the complexity of his multi-faceted profession. “I’m blessed, and in some ways, it can be distracting,” he stated, acknowledging how his drive for greatness pulls him in lots of instructions. “One thing that I have realized, if you do any one thing at a genius level, it’ll make all the rest of the dreams so much easier… It’s just the truth. The hotter I am as an artist, the easier it is for me as an actor.” Regardless of overcoming challenges, he’s grateful:
“It’s surreal. But it also protects me as a man and allows me to be more of a man in these spaces because no one space controls me.”
Banner provided highly effective reflections on self-worth and perspective. “I also had to realize that my failures are some people’s dreams,” he stated. “Sometimes we have a tendency to feel like we’re stuck but we forget what we’re being stuck in—what we’re ‘stuck’ in. My life is great on the bad side, you know what I’m saying?”
He obtained actual about how childhood desires typically meet laborious truths. “Growing up, I believed some of the stories about music and acting… My parents told us, you know, if you eat your Wheaties and you work hard and you do what’s right and all those types of things—most of that stuff is a lie. It’s who you know, what you know, what you do, how you stack the cards to run in your favor. My dream is to make it where children can live that lie that was told to us. Where Banner Vision, my company, can even the playing fields.”
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On relationships, identification, and emotional maturity, Banner stated: “I love me when I wake up in the morning. One of the reasons I’m so happy is because I love to hang out with me. I’m cool.”
Relating to a relationship, finally he desires to be remembered with honor: “I want to die with a woman saying I wish that was my husband… A woman said to me one time… ‘You don’t remind me of my father, you remind me of my grandfather.’ And like, so many times we try to do new things and evolve when the real truth is we probably should go back to those values that made us the Black men and women that we are.”
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