I’ve a Sagittarius solar at one diploma and Venus within the eighth home. I wish to soul-bond, however can’t commit. What provides? 
The primary decan of Sagittarius — that’s, the expression of the solar signal for these born inside the first 10 days of Sagittarius season — is characterised by an inclination towards enjoying within the shadows. At one diploma, you had been simply shy of being born in Scorpio season, an vitality echoed within the placement of your Venus within the eighth home of the underworld, historically related to the scorpion. That is the place your profound need to merge psyches with one other comes from. It’s a pure articulation of the depth that your soul selected to crave. However on the identical time, the adventure-seeking, optimistic openness and curiosity of Sagittarius taste your deepest yearnings, very understandably making a stress together with your harm interior brooder who’s perhaps seen a bit an excessive amount of (understatement) to open your coronary heart up as simply as you do your thoughts.
The trail towards concord lies in acceptance of self initially. These two elements of your self will at all times be in dialogue with each other they usually’re what, considerably paradoxically, provide the depth that defines you. An eighth-house Venus observes obsessively, rigorously selecting to whom it’ll reveal itself, for beneath lies a near-infinite nicely of molten ardour. And this isn’t one thing that simply anyone deserves to witness, a lot much less obtain. The important thing to unlocking your darkly pulsing coronary heart is to search out somebody who adores all of you — who holds your treasured depth and never solely provides you the area in your impulsive Sagittarian sojourns, however takes real pleasure in witnessing you be who you’re.
Take your time letting that air or hearth solar signal (with a water or earth Venus) discover you. Don’t strain your self or succumb to the impatience that may come simply to your solar signal, however do be sure that to speak together with your companions about what you’re on the lookout for and keen to offer. Finally, an eighth-house Venus will accept nothing lower than an intertwining of souls — however will get pleasure from nice intercourse within the meantime, if and when that comes alongside. Your soulmate will cross your path not a second too late, nor a second too quickly. However till then, know thyself the deepest, and ensure your lovers and crushes are totally consenting to the short-term adventures each sexual and emotional to maintain your karma clear.
Goth Shakira is an Aquarian Queen of Pentacles divining and loving in Los Angeles.
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